BY DAYAN MASINDE.
1. “The complaining type”
Are you constantly whining and discontent? Do you make it so
hard for your man to please you? Lady relax, you will never be happy in life if
you pay more attention to what you lack than what you have.
2. “The jealous type”
Are you insecure, unsettled when your man works or even
talks with female friends? Lady relax, your man is a good
man that’s why you chose him. He is your man. No other
woman will take your place. Be secure as his queen.
3. “The mother type”
Are you treating your man like he is a boy? Telling him what
to do, how to do it, and when to do it? Do you correct him as
if you are disciplining a child? Do you touch him like a man
or handle him like a boy? Lady, men love to be treated like
grown men. Be a mother to your child but treat your man like
a capable king.
4. “The needy type”
Are you too dependent and clingy? Do you choke your man
with you demands, demanding your man to talk to you every
10 minutes despite you knowing he is genuinely busy? Do you
suffocate your man in need of abnormal attention? Lady
relax, don’t push him to the edge.
5. “The pushy type”
Are you living in tomorrow? Forcing your man to go to the
next step when today is fresh. Are you the type to meet a
new man and you are already pushing for love, then as soon
as you start dating you push him to propose, then you quickly
want marriage? Lady relax, you will miss out on the proper
growth of love because of your haste. Love is a process not
6. “The touchy type”
Are you the type who loves to touch, to hold hands, to have
your hand on your man? If your man doesn’t understand you
he might find your touchiness too much. Hopefully the man
you choose loves to be touched a lot.
7. “The victim type”
Are you the lady who loves attention by dwelling on your
problems, so that your man feels sorry for you? Do you find
comfort in presenting yourself as the victim and how unfair
the world is to you? Lady, this self-pity to gain attention is not
healthy. You can’t do this for long without your man feeling
drained. Work on yourself.
8. “The bossy type”
Do you give orders and commands, you never listen to your
man, it always has to be your way? Lady, tame yourself;
your man reads this as you being disrespectful.
9. “The childish type”
It’s wonderful to be fun and silly at times. But lady, look at
your man’s reaction to tell whether there are things you do
that he finds too childish.
10. “The suicidal type”
Are you manipulative, daring that you will do something life
threatening so that you arm-twist your man? This is the
quickest way to make your man want as little as possible to
do with you. You have inner problems, deal with them.
11. “The irrational type”
Do you rush into making regrettable decisions. Is your tongue
lose to speak words that you haven’t thought through? Do
you do things that you will not be proud of? Do you keep
changing your mind making you look unstable? Lady, a man
who loves you will love you despite this weakness. But work
on being an emotionally stable woman who is patient and
thinks things through. This will help you in love and in life.
12. “The over-thinking type”
Do you worry too much? Are you not at peace because of
over-thinking? When your husband is making love to you, do
your many thoughts keep you from enjoying your husband?
When enjoying quality time with your man, does your mind
wander going all over the place? Lady relax, over-thinking
robs you the beauty of precious real-time moments.
13. “The suspicious type”
Are you treating your man like a criminal, quick to assume
your man is cheating or doing wrong? Do you snoop on him,
put him on the spot for no reason? Does your tone suggest
you don’t trust him. It hurts a man when his woman doesn’t
14. “The lost type”
Do you lose yourself in the relationship/marriage, you have
no drive, no vision? Are you escorting your man in life and
have nothing to live for on your own? Lady, find you. Your
man doesn’t want an escort or a rubber stamp, he wants an
15. “The perfect lover but pathetic friend type”
You are good at doing things lovers do. You say romantic
things, go out on dates, kiss; but you two are not true friends.
You are not free with him, you would rather share your
challenges and issues with another person. Lady, be not only
lovers, be the best of friends.
16. “The war-monger type “
Are you combative, constantly looking for a fight? Lady relax,
simmer down. Your man wants to be loved, not attacked.
17. “The secretive type”
Do you keep things from your man because you think your
man can’t handle it or because you fear your man won’t love
you if he knows? Trust your man, open up.
18. “The extreme feminist type”
Have you concluded in your heart that men are the enemy,
that this a gender war? This negative attitude will cause you
to want to prove points and drive your man away. Lady relax,
allow yourself to receive some masculine love as you give
your feminine love.
19. “The I am always right type”
Do you always have to win? Do you stop at nothing to show
how your way is best? Lady relax, love is about talking things
out, listening, compromising and making joint decisions.
20. “The loving type”
This is the type every man needs. A woman who is
dependable, caring, secure, thoughtful, mature, giving,
nurturing, challenging. She brings out the best in her man.
Lady, keep loving him like you do.
Post by DAYAN MASINDE